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I THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS MAKING ME EMOTIONALLY UNWELL
I THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS MAKING ME EMOTIONALLY UNWELL
Question for MissDela
ThisweekendIwasoutoftown.Myboyfriendcalledmeatotalof94timesandtextedme
about150times.Mostofthosecalls,Iwasnotabletoanswer.Iwashelpingoutfamilyand
watchinga2-and6-year-oldfor14hoursstraight.WhenIdidtalktohimandexplainedtohim
thathewasemotionallyexhausting,hethenstartedtocrytellingmehowIdon’tcareabout him.IwassoangryandpissedoGathim!
Ihaven’tbeenabletosnapoutofit.I’mplanningon
breakingupwithhimwhenI’mfinanciallyableto.Sidenote,myboyfriendtookoutaloaninmynameanddidn’tcancelitonce
Ifoundout.Needlesstosay,I’mdepressed24/7.I
constantlywalkoneggshellswhenI’maroundhim.Iconstantlylietomyfriendsaboutthe
stateofourrelationship.SomehavenoticedhowheexcessivelycallswhenI’moutwiththem.
Ifsomethinggoesonwithhisfamily,cartroubles,emergencysituations,orjustaboutany
littlethinghewillcallmemultipletimeswithupdates.Pointbeing,amIajerkforbeingfedupwithhisemotionalunstablene
ssandgettingangry/frustrated?WhatdoIdountilthen?
Answer:
Wow,dealingwithaboyfriendlikethatcanbementallyexhausting!Youshouldn’thavetoput
upwithsuchbehavior,evenifthere’saloaninvolved.It’sessentialnottoprojectyouranger
orfrustrationsontohim,butit’salsocrucialtorecognizethatthiskindofconstantcalling
andtexting,over100timesaday,isnothealthy.Itsoundslikeyourboyfriendmighthave someco-
dependenttendencies,andbeinginanenmeshedrelationshipcanbequite
challenging.
Ifyouwanttosalvageyourrelationship,couplestherapycouldbeavaluableoptiontoexplore.Itcan
helpyoubothaddresstheseissuesandfindhealthierwaystocommunicateandrelatetoeachother.
Remember,youdeservearelationshipthatrespectsyourboundariesandallowsforemotionalwell-
being.Don’thesitatetoseeksupportifneeded,forthesakeofyourownhappinessandrelationship health.
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healthylifestylesandrelationships.Whetheryou’reseekingadviceonbusiness,friendship,orromanticrelati
onships,orsimplytakingabreakfromwatchinganotherSexandtheCityrerun,Icouldn’tbemorethrilledtoembark
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Looking forward to connecting with you soon!
Miss Dela Q.
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