3 Simple Lessons To Nail Your ‘Arranged Marriage’ Date
                     3 Simple Lessons To Nail Your ‘Arranged 
Marriage’ Date
Introduction 
• The maharashtrian millennials, to some extent, have been through the 
process where the boy and his family visits the girl’s family and have the 
typical ‘kande pohe programme’. . 
• Come today, and the traditional norms are changing. Today, the boy and girl 
first meet each other before their parents do. 
• Of course, the parents play a key role where they enroll their son’s or 
daughter’s name in one of the marathi matrimonial websites and keep 
suggesting and shortlisting for them to choose from.
• . A suitable match is then identified with the help of details provided on the 
matrimonial profile such as age, education, family background, work profile, 
income, location, zodiac and several other aspects.
Lesson 1: Select a place of choice, not convenience
For Him: Ask her where she would like to meet. Always give the 
ladies the first choice, it is gentlemanly. You can always come up 
with counter suggestions if you don’t find the option feasible. 
Secondly, her choice of place reflects her nature to some extent.
For Her: When you are asked to suggest a place, be assertive. Men 
like women who are clear and vocal. If you are not sure, ask the 
boy to give you some time and get back to them in some time. 
Your suggestion should send out a message to the guy about your 
personality. 
Lesson 2: Eating manners
• For Him: Ask her what she would like to have and then reveal your 
order. You may suggest her something from the menu. This is also 
the right time to ask her if she has any special food choices such as 
pure veg, vegan etc. Once the food is at the table, observe how she 
eats.
• For Her: When you are asked what you would like to have, never say 
“anything is fine” - sounds too dull. Always scroll through the menu 
and order a food which is easy to eat and light. Being a foodie is all 
good, but not a date. 
Lesson 3: Asking personal questions
• For Him: Try to break the ice with boring but mandatory questions 
like, “How are you?” “How long have you been staying in Mumbai? 
(or whichever place you are in right now)” , “where are you 
originally from?” and then traverse to topics like “Do you watch this 
series called...?”
• For Her: Do not nod to each and every question, do not also be 
arrogant. Ask him questions like, “How many members in your 
family”, “How long have you been working” “Do you intend to 
switch location” “Do you intend to live with your family” and so on.
Pavitra Vivah
• We at PavitraVivah.com are well acquainted vadhu var suchak mandal with 
the fact that there are many words that define marriage - union, alliance, 
nuptial, wedding, so on and so forth! 
• The list of words could be absolutely endless; however, the simplest way to 
explain a marriage is ‘two individuals decide to spend the rest of their lives 
together as companions’. But we for us Indians there is a small little twist 
in this concept!
• At PavitraVivah.com we know that the bachelors and bachelorettes of the 
21st century depend on the internet for everything, hence, we decided to 
take a leap into online matchmaking. 
• We understand how important it is for young people to find likeminded 
and compatible partners.
Pavitra Vivah
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