How to Solve Relationship Problems with Relationship Counselor
                     
Lack of understanding
You love your Partner and get the same amount of love back. There is Cosmo energy or light that 
bonds each of us and tear apart for a better reason.
Whether you feel degraded, humiliated, attacked, hampered, neglected, disrespected, 
pressurized, confused... we always have something to blame others, something that we live badly 
in a relationship or several. 
And, let’s say it; our natural tendency to be human is to transfer the responsibility for the problem 
to the other, until sometimes feeling downright persecuted by life. 
“Why he/she left me? “
However, it is common to find that the two protagonists suffer as much from the Relationship 
Problems as the other. 
So there must be something to do on each side of the rope. And it is not all a matter of luck. 
Sometimes the relationship is uncomplicated, natural, and we would like it to always be like this. 
But most of the time it takes a bit of work. And so that difficulties do not become problems, 
we need to call upon certain skills, even knowledge, to defuse tensions. These capacities, 
each of us, can develop them. You just have to want it.
It could be because of something that you can’t change or handle. If 
parents don’t agree or at the end, the demands increases.
Relationship Problems V/S 
Destructive Relationship
There are many cases in India where escape is the only valid 
option that people get. And before dealing with what you can 
do to improve Relationship Problems, I would love you to 
make a little reminder.
If you are facing excessive behavior, if you feel ill, as 
questioned about what you are, run away, protect yourself. 
You should consult with a Relationship Counselor who helps 
to solve problems in relationship.
In the same way, if you witness this situation, do not think for 
three hours, keep your eyes open and raise the alarm. 
We should under no circumstances turn a blind eye to a 
relationship in which it undermines the physical or mental 
integrity of one of the two protagonists. 
It is not becoming a gesturing vigilante, but of not letting the 
evil spread and reacting as we would like someone to do if it 
was us or one of our loved ones who were concerned.
Bad Communication
Until you will not tell the other person what’s in your breaking, 
how will it be a great relationship? If you don’t like cats and your 
partner does, then how will you with cats.
When you have identified the issues at stake for their point of 
view, you will already be better able to communicate with each 
other. With communication, I mean, making your message heard. 
Why?
Because you will have identified the argument that could hit and 
solve the problem by modifying the relationship.
Be cool, this assumes that you concerned with customer 
satisfaction. Otherwise, choose another common ground. Most 
times, it is better to believe that you are advancing to send a 
congruent message, the first step toward assertiveness.
Finally, in a Relationship Problems, it will be necessary to take 
care of the form of your speech. Again, not to hide your emotions. 
If you are angry, say it - the other side’s mirror neurons pick it up 
anyway! But rather to make your message heard.
Same Relationship Problems
Do you have the feeling of always having the same Relationship Problems? 
If you are caught in a Relationship Problems identify the game that is taking place and ask yourself if it looks like 
something that you have already experienced. 
Ritu Singal shares “her boss who made her go crazy never answering her questions. The more she tried to 
“pinch” him to question him about a file, the more he became impossible to find. And she found herself alone in 
stressing decisions to be made while knowing that he would find criticism whatever she did. When she observed 
this funny game, she remembered her relationship with a former colleague and that with her mother who 
worked on the same principle.
You can continue playing this game or to stop it. It all depends on the benefits you get. But if you continue, you 
can no longer call it a relationship problem; it will just be a mode of operation of your relationship, with 
advantages and disadvantages.
Everyone is then free to put them into practice or not, to adopt this state of mind or not, but I believe that when 
group work becomes essential to innovate and learn to manage relationships is one of the key soft skills to gain. 
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By Ritu Singal
Ritu Singal is The Best Conflict Resolution Coach and Life Coach in 
India
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