Ways To Create A Tantric Relationship, Consciously
                     Ways To 
Create A 
Tantric 
Relationship, 
Consciously
Do you want to bring more unconditional love 
into your relationship? Would you like to 
experience greater levels of harmony and 
understanding between you and your partner? 
Do you want to start having more tantric sex 
and take your tantra practice to new heights?
If the answer is yes, here are 6 of my best tips 
for building a conscious tantric relationship:
1. Know your true self
Do you know yourself? Like, really know yourself? Do you know what all 
of your needs are? Your wants, priorities, must-haves, deal-breakers, 
likes, dislikes, fetishes, turn-ons, challenges, shortcomings, and absences? 
 
Having self-awareness about what you do and do not want/need from a 
relationship is absolutely crucial. Once you have this awareness of who 
you are and what your own needs are, you can then communicate them to 
your partner.
2. Develop emotional intelligence.
Speaking as a man, TO an audience who are mostly men, I can attest that 
emotional intelligence is harder for men to acquire than for women.
Women are naturally more emotional creatures. We men on the other hand are 
conditioned and taught from a young age to swallow and hide our emotions. 
Tantric relationships recognize this difference and honor it.
Thankfully, it is possible to develop your own emotional EQ. You simply need to 
give yourself the time and space to sit with, feel into and identify whatever 
feelings are arising.
3. Know and speak your boundaries
Find out what your boundaries are 
and practice communicating them 
in a healthy, non-demanding way. 
Of all tantric techniques, speaking 
your boundaries is perhaps the 
most important.
4. Put the needs of the relationship above those of your own
It is also important to recognize that the relationship itself has needs. 
These are outside of and separate from the needs of the individuals inside 
of the relationship.
Having a conscious relationship is about creating a third entity. You and 
your partner as one. That third entity must be treated like a child. It must 
come first. The child must receive priority, attention, and utmost care.
5. Heal any sexual shame and sexual trauma
When there is true intimacy within a 
relationship, sex (particularly tantric sex) 
has the power to shape, change and heal 
us. There are really no limits as to how far 
it can go.
But when there are blockages, it cannot do 
its magic work.
Steffo Shambo
Mentor at Tantric Academy
Steffo Shambo is the founder of The Tantric Man 
Experience. His specialty is to empower men to realize 
their full masculine confidence, intimate power, and 
depth of connection to their partner. He has helped 
hundreds of men from all around the world to master 
their sexuality and masculine essence to save their 
marriage or attract their soulmate relationship. 
https://tantricacademy.com/